Claire Lombardo’s family saga – The Most Fun We Ever Had – has all the drama of a television series (“This Is Us” comes to mind), as she follows the Sorensons through their lives. Although Marilyn Connelly and David Sorenson anchor the family with their seemingly perfect married life, and their unlikely unending passion, their dysfunctional daughters command most of the action. Lombardo uses the catalyst of a long lost teenager’s sudden appearance after having been secretly given up at birth for adoption, to explain the family dynamics.
The title is misleading; the story is not the most fun you will ever have, as you follow each character in turmoil, yet it is compelling – and long – over five hundred pages. Marilyn is the stereotypical matriarch who married young and supported her husband through medical school, while having babies and burying her own ambitions, which reappear later. Wendy, the eldest daughter, never quite recovers from having competition in her bright younger sister Violet, born in the same calendar year, followed soon after by Liza. The youngest, Grace, born later and referred to as the “epilogue” feels left out, despite her parents hovering. As adults, they morph into a widow; a stay-at-home mom with a law degree; a tenured professor facing parenting alone; and a recent college graduate caught up in an embarrassing lie
Lombardo follows the family through major events but not in order. She begins the story with the wedding of the eldest, Wendy, and proceeds to explain the cryptic clues she initially drops through flashbacks involving births and deaths, sibling rivalries and secrets, and lots of lies. Sometimes it’s not clear at first who is speaking.
A few surprises kept me reading, wondering if another would appear – it did – and the rivalry between the older daughters could probably have been a book by itself. The story is absorbing but also exhausting – and maybe just a little too long.
You’d have to be very invested in the story to read more than 500 pages about the problems of one family. Not sure I would be that keen.
Not sure why I made it through, but it is an investment of time.